Hello. My name is Duncan Brown and I am an English Facilitator, here are some of my thoughts about learning English.
Elton
The title of this article refers to the Elton John song, Sorry Seems to be The Hardest Word The word sorry plays a key part in communication. Sorry is a word which is often used, and depending on the situation can be a functional word or a powerful word to express deep emotions.
Excuse me
Being British, the word sorry is often used in a disposable way, “Sorry. What did you say?”, “Sorry to disturb you but is this seat taken?”, “Sorry, can I get passed?”. The word “Sorry”, by itself, is enough to express yourself in many situations. It’s almost interchangeable with “excuse me”, just like in Japanese.
My condolences
It is also used to express sympathy, “I’m sorry for your loss”, is a common phrase given to those whose relative has passed away. It’s hard to convey deep sympathy without it being difficult for everyone concerned. This phrase is sincere and mostly unprovocative.
Unapologetic
Having done something wrong by accident, the word sorry is always a good start to make it up to the injured party. Even when the insult/lie/damage is intentional, like with bad politicians, the word sorry is the very least to be expected for me. If I don’t hear it, it’s a black mark against them never to be trusted again. The word sorry demonstrates responsibility for someone’s words or actions whether intentional or accidental.
Responsibility
Sorry is the hardest word to say when it makes you most vulnerable, acknowledging your failings and humbling yourself to the person you’re apologising to. If you have never said sorry, I would guess you are perfect. However, I’m sorry, I don’t believe you.
A better world
It’s important to learn how to use “sorry” in all its variations; a little humility, sympathy, and consideration make for a better world. That’s the power of this word.
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